Monthly Archives: September 2013

#274 Best practices

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Stating an opinion emphatically does not make it a fact. Yet, this is a popular tactic and practiced more often than not in the workplace. Those who are loud often push their ideas forward, those who have the facts feel railroaded.

Using best practices is a double edged sword. You cannot counter the loud mouths by offering a best practice. You will be out maneuvered with arguments that show the exceptions to your proposals.

Your best bet is to achieve clarity on the problem, achieve clarity on what you do not know, and reserve the right to opinion until facts are proven. Invest your time in analysis and arm yourself with the details, know your audience when you present your information. Those who understand their audience will offer the most compelling arguments. If you are not prepared, and have not done your homework, maybe the loud mouth deserves to win.

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#273 Equilibrium (movie)

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By now we all know that feelings and emotions are a fact of life, they are a nuisance, and they get in the way of things getting done. How about we invent a way to remove feelings and emotions once and for all? And to top it all, make having feelings and emotions illegal. Phew, what a relief that would be! We could live a steady and harmonious life.

That is the premise of the movie “Equilibrium.”

Predictably, you will learn at the end of the movie that feelings are important and eliminating feelings is not the answer. Watch the movie to reinforce this message. This is hardly a spoiler alert, you have to watch the movie to know how it will end.

Understand your feelings and emotions, and learn to manage them. This is not easy, its a lot like going to school. Millions of children have gone to school, but every child has to go to school and get educated. Meaning, just like going to school, managing feelings and emotions is a foundational rite of passage, it is not something to do because no one has done it before.

Managing your emotions has benefits. You will develop good habits, discipline, and work ethic. Most important, you will discover who you are, you will know your identity.

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