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{"id":942,"date":"2013-04-14T06:26:47","date_gmt":"2013-04-14T06:26:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/strategyexecutioninstitute.com\/?p=942"},"modified":"2013-04-14T22:08:03","modified_gmt":"2013-04-14T22:08:03","slug":"108-overcoming-unproductive-conversations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/strategyexecutioninstitute.com\/?p=942","title":{"rendered":"#108 Overcoming unproductive conversations"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='kindleWidget kindleLight' ><img src=\"https:\/\/strategyexecutioninstitute.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/send-to-kindle\/media\/white-25.png\" \/><span>Send to Kindle<\/span><\/div><p>How to overcome unproductive conversations? Here are some responses that may help:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"line-height: 14px;\">&#8220;Yes.&#8221;<\/span><\/li>\n<li>&#8220;No.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;I don&#8217;t agree.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;I don&#8217;t know.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;I don&#8217;t understand.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;I don&#8217;t remember.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;I&#8217;ll get back to you.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you say, &#8220;Maybe,&#8221; it sounds vague. So a seemingly valid response like, &#8220;I&#8217;ll think about it.&#8221; Negative comments like, &#8220;That&#8217;s ridiculous!&#8221; or <a title=\"#106 Polarizing comments\" href=\"http:\/\/strategyexecutioninstitute.com\/?p=928\" target=\"_blank\">polarizing comments<\/a> will lead to further communication breakdowns.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t worry so much about gaining agreement, set the bar high on achieving clarity.<\/p>\n<p>Skill may help, but you need to embrace conflict, and have self-confidence to connect and communicate.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How to overcome unproductive conversations? Here are some responses that may help: &#8220;Yes.&#8221; &#8220;No.&#8221; &#8220;I don&#8217;t agree.&#8221; &#8220;I don&#8217;t know.&#8221; &#8220;I don&#8217;t understand.&#8221; &#8220;I don&#8217;t remember.&#8221; &#8220;I&#8217;ll get back to you.&#8221; If you say, &#8220;Maybe,&#8221; it sounds vague. So a seemingly valid response like, &#8220;I&#8217;ll think about it.&#8221; Negative comments like, &#8220;That&#8217;s ridiculous!&#8221; [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"no"},"categories":[17,19],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/strategyexecutioninstitute.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/942"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/strategyexecutioninstitute.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/strategyexecutioninstitute.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/strategyexecutioninstitute.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/strategyexecutioninstitute.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=942"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/strategyexecutioninstitute.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/942\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":969,"href":"https:\/\/strategyexecutioninstitute.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/942\/revisions\/969"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/strategyexecutioninstitute.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=942"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/strategyexecutioninstitute.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=942"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/strategyexecutioninstitute.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=942"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}