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#231 Being “squishy”

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Taking decisions is not easy when all the facts are not known and all the pros and cons have not been understood. This is an unproductive excuse, because, almost all important decisions are characterized by incomplete facts and there is not enough time to sort thru all the options, pros, and cons.

If your mind is not calm and you cannot think clearly, or you are unwilling to try, you will just avoid the discussion and still attempt to move forward. This creates needless confusion and downstream costs.

Start by listing the tough issues in your workplace and post the list in a visible place. This will draw attention to them.

The reality is that you will not be able to tackle the list all at once. You will pick and choose based on a priority or your bias. Nevertheless, acknowledging that a tough issue is unsolved and that you’ll get to it at some point is much better than pretending the issue does not exist.

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#230 Athletes, dancers, and actors

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Athletes, dancers, and actors are wonderful to watch largely because of their physical movements. All three need prodigious control over their physical, mental, and emotional abilities. Oh yes, the mechanics of what they do is important as well.

But why are they so attractive, and why are all three considered entertainers?

First, the high performing ones are completely in the moment. Their mind, body, and spirit is into what they are doing. It is such a joy to watch someone who is so involved in what they are doing.

Second, they are committed to their task. Their thought is not on success or failure, but only on practicing their craft. This commitment can be seen as they literally throw themselves physically, emotionally, and spiritually into the task at hand. They do not hold back. We feel one with them as we egg them on towards their goal.

Third, they are comfortable with the vulnerable nature of their profession. Athletes could get hurt. Dancers and actors could get a really bad review, and be booed off the stage. A natural consequence of failure is cancellation of endorsement contracts, and loss of ranking points. Their courage, lack of fear, or their determination even though they are visibly scared, keeps us spellbound, and we fear for them.

The not so good ones are nervous, stiff, distracted, awkward, and thus low quality to watch and with poor performance. If you pay a lot of money to watch these people perform, it is likely your reactions range from disappointment to anger to rage.

While athletes, dancers, and actors “work” they are not thought as working, but entertaining. In the office environment, the “players” have the same challenge. But the same rules apply. You are expected to entertain as well as perform. It does not matter that you are not paid endorsement money or huge prize money or that no one outside your co-workers will know your name.

Be in the moment, be committed, and get comfortable with your vulnerability, no matter what your chosen profession.

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