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#169 Favoritism

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If you feel there is favoritism in the workplace, the first step is to verify and validate that hypothesis. Assume all co-workers are rational. Be curious, and the investigation will keep your mind focused on positive thoughts. The strategy and next steps will then reveal themselves.

If it is a family owned concern, then you just have to put up with it. Or find a professionally managed company to work for. Or start your own company and be the guy who practices favoritism.

If there are cliques that control rewards and resources, try to join the cliques (if you can’t beat ’em, join ’em). Start your own clique, but use it for the benefit of all.

If there is a reason you cannot discover the reason, keep trying, but in the meantime, keep your sword shining, keep the negative thoughts out, and work on your achievements. There is plenty of work to do. When faced by favoritism, we feel alienated or “exiled.” From time to time everyone goes into “exile” in the workplace. Lord Rama and Steve Jobs both went into exile. Both of them focused on fulfilling their purpose in this world and came out on top.

Life is unfair, don’t make it worse by not suspending judgment.

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#168 Chaotic collaboration

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In fast moving environments, speed is worshipped and regarded as a key driver of success. If you can move fast, you will be considered successful. The reason for this is simple: “fail quickly” is the advice heeded by successful professionals. If you are starting something new and you move fast, you will gain a few benefits:

  • If the idea is not feasible, cut your losses and try something else.
  • If an idea is feasible, shift your investments around to high potential or high reward projects.
  • You have to move faster than the competition, sometimes time to market is critical.

While speed will always be on the wish list, once a target or goal has been established, it is better to tap the brakes and move at a speed you can control. Momentum is gained via collaboration, and the weakest link in your coalition will determine your safe speed. If you go faster than the top speed of the slowest member of your coalition, you will have to pause often to wait for them to catch up. If you don’t wait, your coalition is weakened. If you achieve your target or goal, and the slowest member catches up, they are not part of the solution, hence lower commitment to sustain the momentum.

If you can afford to, you will shed and replace the slowest member, but that may not always be an option.

While the workplace does not have to be a pure democracy, you can’t afford not to help your coalition keep up with your speed.

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