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#149 Point of view

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It is critical to have a point of view. The world around you wants to know what you think. The world also wants to know if you have an open mind and will be ready for alternative viewpoints.

The paradox created by these expectations has led to a lot of confusion. Some of you and your co-workers take a stand and stubbornly stick to your guns because you “need to have a point of view” and it’s a “matter of principle.” Others go with the flow, try to say “yes” to everything and appear weak and spineless. But in their mind, they have an open mind and are ready for alternate viewpoints.

The words of Obi-Wan ring true, “Luke, you will find that many of the truths we cling to depend greatly on our own point of view.”

A point of view provides a solid footing. Watch professional athletes, most of their power comes from a wide stance and balance. Also watch them change their feet and adjust, either to their opponent (martial arts) or to what their opponent does (tennis) or to their own plans (soccer).

Yes, you must have a point of view. Without that, your value in the workplace is diminished. The point here is to be mindful of your point of view so you know when it makes sense to be open. And  please, no clinging. Yes, that is a point of view (pun intended).

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#148 The Rorschach Test

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We take this test every time we speak, send an email, or make a presentation. The idea behind the method is to ask subject’s perceptions of inkblots, and then analyze their responses. This is very similar to what happens in the modern workplace. Problems are presented as “inkblots,” meaning, they are vague, and even nonsensical. But a non-reponse is often not an option. You have to say or do something. And when you say or do something, it is immediately interpreted, judged, ridiculed, applauded, rejected, or accepted.

This can be very unnerving to the inexperienced. A possible reason for the discomfort: the rules are unclear! The organization culture has no on boarding process, induction is a “trial by fire” and “sink or swim.” Those who can adapt and adopt the norms do well. Others have to withdraw, often wounded and bruised.

There are two implications of this. If an organization does not have an on boarding process, you need to create one for yourself. That is the premise of the book written by Michael Watkins. Don’t show up to a new place of work and act like a babe in the woods! You don’t need a new job to apply the lessons, pretend tomorrow is the first day in your current job and start over, no one will notice.

The second implication of this is for you to get used to the idea that you are taking a Rorschach test every time you say or do something. Once you accept the testing process, it can be fun, and you’ll soon learn to use it to your advantage.

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