Category Archives: Management

#51 Why didn’t you tell me?

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No one likes surprises. Taking your boss by surprise is career limiting. Taking your stakeholders by surprise will get you low scores for collaboration and teamwork. It also provides cannon fodder to your critics.

If events move at a rapid pace, you have to break the news at some point. A sharp reaction to breaking news is a bad habit. If you point out the bad habit, you will lose points on “friendliness” and “trust.” If you don’t point out the bad habit, your nerves will be raw with all the reactions you get when you share news.

Your main recourse is to not display that bad behavior and hope others will copy that. Meaning, don’t react to news. Find out when the news was available to the messenger and mentally calculate how long it took to get to you. Point that out and praise those who delivery (bad) news quickly. It takes time to transmit a message thru the organization. Those at the lower end of the food chain will get the news later, they just have to get used to the fact.

When you publish (bad) news, let your audience know when the information became available to you. Include the curation and editing and research you did to improve productivity. Put some points on the board so you will get the benefit of the doubt.

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#50 Percentage of snarky comments

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If your co-worker is making snarky comments, it may be temporary frustration, or some deep rooted problem. At some point, everyone is frustrated. Life is not perfect, and sometimes it just becomes too much to handle. If your co-worker does not let off steam via harmless snarky comments, they will do something worse. The trick is to control the volume and tackle the problem at the root.

If the percentage of positive comments to total comments decrease over time, it is time to take your co-worker aside before they become the rotten apple that ruins the whole basket.

The isolated snarky comment is also a clue. It may be disguised as a (bad) joke. It may be revealed by tone or body language. Or, it may be revealed by silence, ignoring requests, or stalling when presented with indisputable facts. In any case, you have to be aware, and be prepared to intervene.

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