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#126 Annoyed? Frustrated?

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Problem solving with humans is messy business, and in a couple of situations at work, I felt I was walking thru oatmeal. Every day felt like Groundhog Day. I was not sure whether to be annoyed or frustrated.

I decided I would be in neither state. Doing nothing was not an option. Devoting energies to finding out “why” turned out to be very productive. The big “aha” moments were the following:

  • The problems I was solving were clearly a priority, and mission critical. It made sense to keep at it. This is a critical filter. If the problem is not a priority, don’t waste time, go do something else.
  • I felt my colleagues were not doing their bit, not pulling their weight. Obviously, they saw the situation differently. I did not know why, and that is where my energies needed to be applied.
  • I did not sit still, I started doing tasks to clarify the problem, tasks I felt were not my job. I realized that I cannot sit still, I have to be a man of action. (This can be good or bad, but that is a story for a different blog)
  • If I could be very, very specific, and make the problem statement idiot proof, a bullet proof solution will emerge.
  • Those “in charge” don’t want conflict or to confront bad behavior or manage performance with touch conversations. Accepting this reality is essential, suspending judgment is critical. If I was “in charge” I’d want to tread lightly as well. Humans are more sensitive than sensors on a BMW, they tend to “malfunction” at the slightest knock to their motivation. Troubleshooting problems relating to human motivation can be more time consuming and expensive compared to fixing a BMW. There is a “right way” to approach performance problems, I just need to find it.
  • Problems like this take time and money to solve. I could choose to be a martyr, a lightening rod, or an exemplary change agent and role model. I just have to set the right expectations along the way so I can survive to tell the war story.

What techniques worked for you? What war stories can you share?

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#121 The Next Level

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Here is a problem with success: expectations begin to rise. No sooner than a task is completed, there is an immediate need to ratchet up performance. This can be a blessing or a real pain. It can be motivating or a depressant.

Almost every human I know needs physical and psychological rest between accomplishments. Almost no one can handle the relentless pace of change that is thrust upon them. Assess the capacity to absorb change and the need for recuperation from the prior effort in your audience before you hand out goals.

More important, as you challenge yourself, do not place an undue burden upon yourself. Give yourself time to recuperate before you take on the next level of achievement. In other words, don’t be a martyr unless it is really, really worth it.

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